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Should ii ask or wait?
Theres this guy I like and im pretty sure he likes me. We have hung out a couple times recently and we have kissed and made out and all that stuff. I really want to ask him out but i dont want to get turned down. Im not sure if he is looking for a relationship or not. Im pretty sure he likes me because we talk online and hes kissed me like i said. If i do ask him out how do i tell the time is right and how do i do it.
Should i even ask him out?
Please help!
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You talk and you kiss. He likes you but you also communicate in other ways that establish trust (like communicating) and you already hang out. The difference between this and going out is... nothing. Well there is one difference. You would be acknowledging the relationship that is already there to yourself and admitting to yourself that you wish t be truly committed to this guy. It can be a tough thing to admit to yourself for the relationship shy or the loveshy in general. Though, honestly, all you are doing is opening your eyes to what is already there.
To get him to get the hint, casually, instead of suggesting a regular hangout, suggest something more formal, like dinner and a movie. That should help him get the message that you wish to take this further. You never know, he may consider you to be in a relationship already (couldn't those hook-ups be considered dates?). Unless he is paranoid about relationships or girls or love it's quite doubtful he would refuse a date or even a relationship. At this point it doesn't seem like there would be one right way to ask him out since you're pretty much together already, all that is required now is some smelling of coffee once you wake up to recognize it and accept it as something real in your life.
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Ask him if he is looking for a relationship.
Everyone is afraid of rejection.
Maybe he doesn't want to be rejected either.
I say take the risk.
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you don't ask a guy out they ask you out thats just wrong 2 ask a guy out
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Well if it's getting hurt that you're worried about, I would wait. Try and ask subtle questions whose answers might lead you to find if he's as interested as he's acting. Maybe once he's sure that you guys like eachother, he'll work up the confidence to make the first move.
Good luck!
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do it you will regret not doing it if you dont do it
nothing bad can happen to you if you do it and he says no
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