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im really depressed....because..
the last day of skool was the last time im gonna see my close friend cause she is moving to diffrent country soon.But ive been avoiding her for a while because i was upset that she was moving and now shes doing the same too so we dont really talk anymore.And then when the class ended i tried to hold my tears but i burst up crying front of her and she tried to cheer me up couple of times but it didnt work so she left saying"im leaving so dont cry" and left me so i cried for like 3hours after school and after that we dont talk anymore, and yesterday she was on in AIM and i was scared to IM her but i TRIED talking to her in AIM and i finally i IMED her but she didt respond me i was waiting for like 2 hours but i was talking to my other friend also but she never replied and she signed off on me and that was the time i was really sad and upset and i was blaming myself for us drifting apart, and not close anymore and what do you think about this? = /
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ok 1 question... why were you even avoiding her? you said because you were mad at her that she was moving.... it's not like it was her choice to move. Maybe she didn't even have a real chance to explain to you why she was moving. i agree with the other advicenator, plan something really special with her and you 2 just TALK! talk about your past and talk about why you are mad at her. trust me, it'll make you feel sooo much better if you just let it out.
Just because she is moving, doesn't mean that you 2 are never going to talk to each other again. Keep in touch by writing letters, emails, or phone call her.
You can even give her a present and wish her the best.
You NEED to fess up with her and tell her why you are sad/mad. If you don't, she'll be confused and won't know why you are mad/sad and will only make the friendship worse.
I wish you the best of luck
-volleyball2150
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go to her house and visit her... you need to let her know why you've been avoiding her and that you didn't mean to make her feel weird but you were just really nervous to be without her. avoiding each other isn't the best way to say goodbye, you'll never forgive yourself (and her too) if you don't properly say goodbye one last time. plan a sleepover for just the two of you... rent you favorite movies, and just have fun! the next day, is when to be sad again... but have some good fun just one last time and you'll both feel better. also, stay in touch when she leaves... write letters, call each other, it won't be so bad, i promise ♥ hope i helped!
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