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i'm not getting any
i dont want this to sound bad of me, but my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex with me. we used to have great sex all of the time, but he won't now.
recently, he got ill but doesn't know what caused it, and it's lasted for over 2 weeks now. since then, he just hasn't been interested in sex.
why is this? like, could he be sick and not want it or can it be possible that he isn't interested in me anymore? we have been together for 2 1/2 years.
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go buy a dildo and wait it out honey. he'll come back around. but i know when i'm sick i can't get it up at all. your body feels too drained to do anything more than just lay there or sit there. especially if it's a serious disease or one that gets you slapped in the hospital. all you can do is wait it out. and i bet he'll bounce back with more vim and vigor than ever. or who knows he might be gay now. but it's doubtful that'd happen. you'll get some weiner soon.
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maybe he's afraid to get u sick. try asking why he is avoiding you
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Hi there,
Perhaps your guy is feeling better but his body is still weak. If he was sick maybe he just doesn't have the energy at the moment.
If you feel that he has become distant in sex but nothing else then I wouldn't worry about him not being interested in you anymore.. it could very well just be the fact that he is still getting over his sickness.
On the other hand.. If he isn't paying any attention to you in the bedroom or in any other way you seriously need to talk to him.
Let him know that you have noticed a lack of affection in the bedroom although you understand he has been sick but is it for any other reason..?
Hope I helped and hope you get some soon lol :)
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Hi. Don't worry about him not wanting you more because this is a pretty common thing at times. I've been there myself as well. Being ill so long does take a toll and can make ost lose interest in sex (being ill is generally depressing). If he is still ill just give him time but if he's recently recovered from it just give him a little time to adjust again to not being ill and to fully recover (including the recovery of his sex drive) and things should be back to normal. If you are still worried though you should try talk to him about it. You've both been together a long time so I think being open with each other on things like these would be easy to do. Good luck. :]
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