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What makes guys lose respect?
I just wanted to say thanks for opening this even if you're not going to answer it! LOL! If you're a guy then you can really help me with this. Okay! So I wanted to know if guys like girls that are really easy or they like the ones that wait. I just wanted to know if guys lose respect for girls if the girl is all over them. I've tried to flirt but I might just suck at that. Like guys dont like me for me they dont want a relationship and I think its because they have no respect for me at all. I just dont know how to make guys like me just by talking to them. Because there's this guy that I like but he doesnt like me back and I dont know why but he does like this one girl and he says because she flirts with him and they have alot in common. And she only made out with him. Why does he like her and not me? I mean I cant change who I am at all because I've tried and it doesnt work out so well. I just dont like being used by someone and then being thrown away like trash! How can I change the way guys see me?
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Im a girl.
But I can tell you this..
Guys will run over girls that are easy...
That give it up faster then a pen dropping to the floor..
If you want to be a little flirty thats fine..
But trying to hard is being desperate..
If he doesnt like you for who you are then they are not worth you trying..
If you want to get a guys attention without acting like a complete hoe what you do is simply sit down and talk to them, act natural, flirting is fine, ask him does he have a girlfriend.., what does he likes, BLAH BLAH BLAH..
When I like a guy its obvious for them to find out because I be making things obvious I would be flirting alot and always connecting eyes with him...
I suggest you just act like your own self never compete with a girl because its childest exspecially if the guy likes that girl anyways..
If you still wanna get his attention how bout you just go and flirt with him without try to hard or being desperate for his attention.
How bout you come to school one day looking very nice, have your hair done cute, make up looking hot, your face just glowing, your outfit is hot..
Have his attention on you act like you dont see him looking at you, act silly, have all eyes on you, be feeling yourself...
CONFIDENT AS EVER.
Im pretty sure a guy will wanna talk to you and get to know your.
Trina
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If you have showed this guy all you have to offer than maybe he just really doesn't mesh well with you. Guys are all different. Some like the real "easy" woman. Some want commitment. This guy might just be looking for a good time. & if he isn't interested in you then there will be an even more special guy for you that is. Although, if you REALLY want him to notice you more than this other girl, make him jealous. It's a bit immature, but a definite thing that gets their attention. Good luck.
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First off, you should never ever change who you are. Be proud of who you are and wait for the guy who loves you for who you are.
Next, im a girl but my opinion is guys might like easy girls just because they get sex or something sexual out of them. Guys probably wouldnt want to date easy girls because your right, they dont respect them and wouldnt want a slutty gf. A girl who carries herself well and has standards is a girl that a guy would want to have a relationship with. (in my opinion)
About the question why does he like her and not you? Well i guess its his loss..if he doesnt see you like that then its not your problem. brush him off and jsut keep in mind you will meet a guy who likes you. give it time..be yourself..and just go out there and meet new people. Dont throw yourself otu there by appearing desperate or slutty. Keep your head high and dont stress over guys who dont like you back..remember, their loss..not yours hun!
-melissa-
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