ok i like this guy *bob* now we live near each other and are always with each other. we hug and kiss even snog,,..but we aren't lyk in a relationship,...he's very flirty wif other girls and i no he snogs alot of other girls too but for some reason that doesn't bother me.
My best friend is now on the verge of breaking up with her boyfriend and was talking about how she will have a flirt with *bob* nd won't think twice about her boyfriend but now what i'm worried about is if she does split up with her boyfriend and decides to flirt even more with *bob* because really he isn't my boyfriend so how do i tell her not to flirt with him or tht,...i dn't mind lyk the odd thing bein said here or there but jst not like givin him kisses and stuff
please help
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? junebug93 answered Tuesday June 19 2007, 5:02 pm: You say you don't want your friend to flirt with bob... well are you truly okay with this no relationship benefits thing? You could explain the relationship to her, just what you wrote here, and that might help.
Personally I think you should rethink whatever you have with bob because it's not doing you any good; you're sacrificing your reputation and ability to have a relationship with anyone while making out with him. Whether you are ok with it or not he is using you. IF you truly are okay with it, some people do go for the whole polygamy thing, who am I to judge? I would just advise you to rethink what you have with bob because if he doesn't care enough about you to be in a relationship with you then you aren't getting much in return and you will have to face other messy situations such as this one. [ junebug93's advice column | Ask junebug93 A Question ]
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