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re:re:re:rE:do you know why she left me?


Question Posted Monday June 18 2007, 5:55 am

yea i shouldnt think too much butits hard and im pretty much getting worried because we always talk to each other in myspace and all that but Jun.3 was our last convo we had like this "one life's unfair, it's complicated, it works in was we wish it didnt. but don't be sad, i can feel you trying to drift away....makes parting away easier, but then could you really stand the fact of separating knowing htat u guys are distant or parting knowin you guys had last good memories together? but makes going away harder.... " and that was our long convo we had and the rest is all short convo and we dont even really communicate with eachother no more ad she doesnt IM me in AIM like she used to, after that just a short responce and hugs thats all i commented her saying "Jun 13
damn feels like we're distant friends like you said...i'm sorry but too late huh? =/ " but she never commented me back like we always do do you think we really drifting away? i really need vacation too...


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HereForYou answered Wednesday June 20 2007, 12:33 pm:
Hey there! Sorry but i answered this question yesterday and it was long and perfect but the internet shut down and it was gone =( Anyways ill try again. =)

I know its hard for you, but you should try keeping your mind off things! Like the vacation is already a good start. Kepp yourself busy, that way you wouldn't have to think about it a lot. I'm not saying that it will make you feel better or change your feelings, but it would at least be better than thinking about it all day, and that would ruin your summer.

I think that you guys will eventualy talk again. You might not talk for a while, but you'll start again step by step. So it's definately going to seem that both of you are drifting apart. It hapened to me once, me and my friend didn't talk for almost more than a year. And then one day i talked to her online, and started just saying anything random like what i did on the weekend. And now we talk all the time. So why dont you just enjoy your vacation in maryland. Go out and have fun and then tell her all about it. You know you guys can keep emailing each other. Plus birthdays and holidays are an advantage cuz then you guys can still at least say Happy Birthday or something. =)

I think things will get better in time, hopefully. If they don't then don't put your life at hold. Always look at the bright side of your life. =) Plus then its her loss, you tried and did your best by staying in touch. If she doesn't reply back or make an effort, then move on. There's nothing you can do about it, wou've done your part. (I know it sounds kind of mean =(, but you can't keep sending emails for a while and get nothing back.) If you need anything else leave it in my inbox. Good luck and i'll talk to you later. =D

P.S. i didnt understand the convo. =S who was saying what?

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