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sorry i dont know how to just tell you something
Okay so shhes been trying to be nice today
but its not that easy
i mean she always does this
she flips out really bad
and then the next day she realizes it
then acts like im gonna forget about it
i dont think she gets how it affects me
it totally brings my mood down by a lot
all ive done today is be on the computer
i had people who wanted to hang out but i told them i couldnt
ehh idk just thought id tell you what happened after i asked for help yesterday :] thhankss!
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Hi again,
Sorry it has taken me so long to reply to your question! The paten of behaviour you describe your mom as showing is common - they flip out, go mad, go totally berserk then calm down and then feel guilty and as you say make a real effort to be nice. But this niceness is really (as you know only too well) just the calm before the storm - before the next time they flip out. People who behave in this irrational and volatile way need help - professional help to allow then to break that cycle, that vicious circle and learn to control their feelings and emotions. Would it be wise to try and talk to your mom and explain things from your point of view while she is in a happier mood or would the conversation just make her angry? if you think it would help then give it a try - but like I said last time you cant put up with having to live like this and you need to make certain others, who can help know whats going on! Keep keeping me up to date and remember the most important people who will help you through this are your friends!
Love n hugs!!
Chandler
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