Everytime my boyfriend has fingered me, Ive never orgasmed or anything. Like the first couple times, it felt good but never like "WOAH AMAZING." and the LAST couple times, it just seems like hes tryna get too into me and it starts to hurt. Or is it just that Im too tight?
thanks in advance!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Michele answered Thursday June 14 2007, 3:44 pm: Well, I think your boyfriend is missing the spot that when stimulated, will bring enjoyment to you. Have you ever masterbated yourself? Why not try that, you find the spot, then you can direct him. and I'll give you a clue, it is NOT inside you. It is your clitoris, and the clitoris is outside of your vagina. Go to goole images, and type in vagina or even clitoris, and you will see a medical photo of a womans genital area and it will show you where the clitoris is. That is what he needs to stimulate. A lot of lubrication, like KY jelly, helps too.
LoveNJstyle answered Thursday June 14 2007, 3:41 pm: He's probably just starting to get too rough. just tell him that it's starting to hurt so he goes more gently and you actually enjoy it.. at least a little bit more. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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