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Internal orgasms
I need advice!!! I'm 21, had 11 sexual partners, been in two serious relationships, and very happy with my body and feel confident in sex but just can't have an internal orgasm and never have!!!! What's going on!?!?!?!?! It's attually starting to worry me now. I'm in a serious relationship and i feel totally comfortable, so it's not because I'm trying too hard or don't feel comfortable. HELP?!!!!
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It is actually a very common occurence for women not to have orgasms from vaginal penetration. Anatomically and physiologically speaking only the distal 1/3 of your vagina has nerves that could be considered pleasurable. During most penetration- the penis goes beyond this area and doesn't stimulate the Graffenberg spot (G-Spot). The G- Spot is actually many nerve endings in one spot on the anterior aspect of your vagina, and one can actually tell where it is b/c it will feel different from the rest of your vaginal wall- rougher in a way. These nerves often share the same endings as the ones in the clitoris which is why they are very sensitive.
It is normal and you should not be concerned. You can try different positions- reverse cowgirl or scissor position are often most effective to getting to the G- spot. Another method that often helps is to stimulate both areas at once- and then there can be a psychological connection between both clitoral and vaginal orgasms- where eventually a person can have a "clitoral" type orgasm with just vaginal intercourse.
You just need to find what is most comfortable for you and as I tell people who ask questions- remember- orgasms are experienced in the head more than anywhere else.
Best of luck,
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This is totally normal. Women don't always orgasm without stimulation to the clitoris. Some women don't orgasm from their G-spot at all, and some always do. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, because there isn't, or that you don't have a G-spot, because you do.
You may consider trying different positions to see if he can hit it.
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