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im about to punch her...but she's three times the size of me
long story short me and my best guy friend felt each other up the day after his girlfriend broke up with him. he was cheating on her with me but nobody knew it. i told one of my friends that we felt each other up because she had been teasing me about not getting any, but thats not why i felt up the guy, i felt him up because i liked him alot and he was finally single. ok so i told my friend because normally she's a down to earth person who can keep a good secret. my guy friend really didn't want anyone to find out because he was still in love with his ex and wanted to get back with her. now for some reason three months later this b***ch decides to tell all of our friends, including the guy's ex that I SAID we made out and that he cheated. first of all, we never made out, i never said that, i don't lie, and he did cheat on his girlfriend but absolutely nobody knows that except me and him. so everyone thinks im a liar because when they asked the guy about us making out he denies it because we didn't do it, therefor making me look like a liar because "i said we made out". the guy was PISSED at me for telling people because he believed this girl who said i said all that b.s. well after 2 months of this drama, the guy finally realized im right and apologized to me and now we're better friends than before. meanwhile this girl and his ex keep telling more and more people that im a liar, im not a liar, she's the F'n liar. i've walked in on them twice talking about me. im about ready to punch this lying rumor spreading bitch but she has 3times the muscle i have (im about 105lbs, she's about 150 pure muscle) and she's about 5 inches taller than me, and could deffinately kick my ass. im not friends with her or his ex anymore because of this yet i still see them all the time because my 2 other bff's didnt want to get involved in the drama, even though they were on my side, so they're still friends with them. i don't know what to do about this. part of me is just saying "fuck it, i got my guy back" and the other part is still furious with her because she just keeps continuing this bull shit drama. help me deal with this girl. this drama started in February!!!
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As much as you deserve what's happening to you, I disagree with what they're doing.
Yeah, you helped him cheat on his girlfriend, that was bad. But spreading rumors & ruining someone's life is just as horrible.
Basically, you should forget about it. If you've been happy, who cares what they say? Shittalkers are going to talk shit. It's in their blood -- it's what they do.
Just ignore all of it. When there's no retaliation to what's being said, they get bored with it & decide to leave you alone. If that doesn't happen to be the case, then they're stupid immature bitches & that's something you've gotta live with.
Just don't deal with them, don't talk to them & don't think about them. Don't even try to hate them. When doing all the negative things, you're wasting positivity that could be happening. Just ignore what they're saying & live life.
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Frankly, I think you should forget it. You helped a guy cheat on his girlfriend, and when he was on the rebound you felt each other up. That is so disgusting and immoral.
You say he's your best friend? A best friend would never, ever, help the other best friend cheat on his/her girl/boyfriend.
I think you deserve all this trouble. You got yourself into this by helping a guy cheat on his girlfriend, and in my books, that makes you no worse than the person who is cheating. Get yourself out of this trouble, you got yourself into it. I am not surprised all your friends are talking about you. You need to get your priorities right.
You say that you wanted my advice and not my opinion. As advice is a FORM of opinion, I think that my answr is perfectly acceptable. As I said in my answer, "you should forget it." Make your own way through this because you don't desreve help from others.
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okay first off i dont blame the girl for it and you shouldn't either. technically you took her man and now you've got him back so im sure shes just gunna run her mouth because shes still upset by it.. if you let it get to you then shes gunna continue.. worst case you need to walk right up to her and say lets TALK. no attitude be cool about it.. and tell her exactly how it went. remind her that you "dont care if she believes you or not, and that your trying to be the bigger person by talking about it instead of fighting about it" let your man know you want to speak to her..
hope i helped! oh and technically you werent cheating.. it says up there you never made out but you "felt eachother up" when they broke up.. so thats not cheating.. if you kissed him and what not then okay yes it is cheating.. just wanted to clarify..
good luck my dear (:
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