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I do cheerleading with my friend Stephie. she's one of my goood friends and she's also good friends with my two best friends sarah and johanna. Well me and my best friends have this trip to california planned out and its been planned for a long time. all of a sudden my friend Stephie was invited. online that night i IMed my friend sarah and told her that stephie was invited. turns out that stephie was on sarah's account. i told her i didn't mean it in a mean way, which i didn't! its just that we've had this planned with just my best friends and she was invited. the thing is, when i talked to my friend sarah about her being invited..she didn't mind at all. and weeks before she would mind even if stephanie was invited to something!
i don't get it at all but i didn't mean to hurt my friends feelings at all cause i love hanging out with her!! i don't think anything i say would make her think that tho
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If your other friends want it to be just you three going to the California, just tell Stephie. Say you planned it in advance, and it'd be great if she came, but you guys are very close and had it planned as just you three.
Then try to make it up to her! Suggest that just you and Stephie could do something fun sometime (another trip, or something else). Make sure you tell her you feel bad and you love hanging out with her, but the trip was planned for a long time, and it was planned for just you three, and you don't want to cause any problems for anyone. She should understand.
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Truth: there is nothing you can say to make your friend think something.
Just let her come though. I realize that this was just you & your best friends, but you can't help the fact that she got invited. The trip might even be better if she comes.
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