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uncomfortable around boys................
okay theres this girl i hung out with, with also 3 other girls on a field trip last year. i didnt really know her that well, but we had lots of fun and yeah that was like the only time i talked to her.. well we were in the same orchestra so occasionally we talked i guess. anyways somehow she had my sn.. maybe i gave it to her, i dont remember.. anyways we talked and it was cool and stuff. and then i commented on someone's funny AIM sn, which was like need2pee or something, and then he IMed me and i dont know him.. i mean obv we go to the same school.. but anyways we talked. and it was kinda awkward.. sometimes im kinda awkward around guys and for the whole convo i didnt wanna say anything stupid or anything so he'd like me since he seems pretty cool. maybe i should meet him at school first but hes in a diff pod than me and stuff. how can i learn to not be like this? some friends that are closer to me i dont care if i say stupid stuff cause i know they will still be there cause they know im like that sometimes... acck idk! and theres like this guy like sometimes you think hes your friend and sometimes you dont know if hes making fun of you.. anyways its kinda pressuring to be around him.. i guess in an intimidating way cause he always has good comebacks and is funny and popular and stuff.. not threatening though since hes like shorter than alot of guys.. i mean hes cool but sometimes.. like he'd come up to you and stare like in a jokingly way.. or like do a little dance, but i dont know why i cant loosen up too!!! its hard to explain, but i dont like feeling uncomfortable around people like this.. and in my school after an incident (im 13 in middleschool) we have to use passes to get out of class and stuff.. and the bathrooms are monitored by people (theres only 2 we can use.. its really stupid) and so ya.. how will i get a chance to meet this guy when we havent even seen each other yet? and what should i say? not something stupid.. should i be like "hey whats up" or what if he doesnt recognize me.. or... i dont wanna seem like im desperate or anything.. lol maybe im paranoid for thinking over this too much but whateva... HELP! THANKSSSSS! =]
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
dont be paranoid; take a risk. if you know who he is, go up to him in the hall if you see him and talk to him. just say ey to him every now and then. and next time you're on the computer, ask him to hang out with some of your friends from both groups. and when you go out, wear cute, casual clothes. dont go all out just look good and make him notice you.
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