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<i know this is long but PLEASE READ> SO, last year i dated this guy I really liked named kyle. at first eevrything was great. i became friends with his friends and i thought we were totally in love. he said he loved me soo much and that I was his angel. we met at a camp, and the next week at the camp was amazing. we accualy snuck out and watched the sunset together. so everything was perfect. but then one day he told me just for today he wanted to hang out with the guys. so that day i went with the girls. we were going to go horsebackridding but it got caneled so we decided to go down to the lake, but as we were going up the big hill I saw kyle on the bench making out with another girl. I got closer and started to cry right away me screaming "how could you" i started screaminng at him. while he said lanie, it is NOT what it looks like, I just ran away, but he chased after me, i ran to the girls cabin the boys werent allowed. my friends came with. he stode outside for a while, then left, as I was crying for hours with my friends. at times he would try to talk to me after that, but I just walked away. so a year later, he called me out of the blue, and asked me whats up. When i asked why he was callin me he just said "I dont know. i missed you." he also said he didnt have another girlfriend after me, and I was the only one he wants. and that hes TRULY sorry. I called his friends and they said that was true but i asked my girlfriends, and they said he was with a girl just the other night. idk. i found out he drinks alot now too. but honestly after the brake-up, i hurt soo much but never got over him. i dont know if I should give him another chance. should I? i just dont know anymore.
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If it were me, I know I would give him another chance. I mean you love and miss him, so if you have the chance to get back together with him, you should. And if it were your friends in your posistion they would give him another chance too, even if they tell you not to do it, its just how us girls are. Go with what your heart is telling you. Start talking to him more, and hanging out with him more. Don't just jump into a relationship. Also, I'd have him explain to you why he cheated on you, if possible. You can't do anything about him drinking, a lot of kids drink. Hope I helped !
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Once a player, always a player.
Move on, if he drinks alot, then it will be hard for you to trust him. Tell him that you just can't trust him after that, and he really hurt you. if he sounds really really really really sincere,then try it out again, if you want.
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you could try a few dates telling him your checking. If he still has what you loved about him than give him another chance.
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Well if you feel that he has truly changed. But don't got plunging right into it. Start out as close friends at first, so you will be prepared if anything does happen. But if it turns out that he truly has changed go for it, but don't think your in love with him until he has proven to you that he has changed and will stay changed.
There are also reason why you shouldn't. The fact that he drinks now would scare me a bit, since I am still young. If you do go with him, explain to him that you don't want him around you when he drinks, or when he knows he's drunk, because you don't want it to get abusive, and that may become a problem.
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