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how to get over him
there this boy that i liked for a while and well i found out that he had move and i was shock and everything and i still have feelings for him. So how do i get over him what should i do.
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well maybe you should try to like somone else and maybe tell him your not over him yet.
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well if i understand your question correctly, he moved away? but you still like him?
ok well what i'd do is just go hang out with friends and find someone new i liked. sure you might not find somebody right away, but you can't get a good relationship just like that *snaps fingers*. it took me quite a while to end up in the great relationship i'm in right now. . .
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The best thing to do to get over someone you have feelings for is to keep busy and give yourself time. I would imagine that you've already given yourself time to grieve, which is completely normal. Now you're going to have to give yourself a nudge to get beyond the grieving state and to keep from dwelling.
To do this, continue to live your life as though you aren't hurting (fake it until you make it!). This might sound easier said than done, but if you keep at your favorite activities (maybe consider starting up some new ones), the pain will eventually fade away in time as you begin to heal and let go of your feelings.
This may seem awkward at first, like you're just going through the motions, but stick with it. You will begin to see that the more you lose yourself in your own world, the less often you will think of him. Here are some things you might consider to speed up the healing process:
Spend extra time with your friends and family - people who'll pull you out of your thoughts and make you smile. Start exercising and take up a new sport - it's a great way to keep your mind off your feelings, keep in shape, and your body will release a chemical called endorphins that will make you feel much better faster. Make sure you're sleeping correctly and eating correctly too.
You've made this boy your main focus for a while now. It's time to make yourself your main focus and take care of you.
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There's only one way to get over someone you like and that's to give it time and to move on. Sitting around waiting will probably get you no where because they may never return. In this case you had never told him how you feel? All you really can do is try and contact him somehow to let him know how you feel but then you also have to remember that he's also moved away now, you'd have to take that into account if you really want to now tell him (hemay ask why you waited until he left before you told him and the whole long distance thing may not even appeal to him).
Other than that the only thing you can do is move on and give yourself some time. Forgetting him will not happen over night so don't try doing that becuase it just won't work. I'm not saying forget about how you felt about him but to just move on and get on with things. You may end up meeting someone else soon who you might like even more that this guy - you just never know. But the key is to just give yourself time to get over him. Good luck and I'm sorry that he moved away. :(
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this is hard. you probly wont get over him for a while dont rish it. but get social again. mabee there will be another LUCKY guy for you
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