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Ex boyfriend who already has a new gf
I went out with this guy months ago. He broke up with me because he thought I liked someone else(not true). He found a new gf but we're still friends. We talk on the phone every night for hours. I have a feeling that he still likes me because when we talk on the phone he always makes really flirty remarks like he'll say "I want a girl here with me to hang out with" Then I'll say "your gf?". Then he says "no, you". He always tells me that he likes his gf, but not as much as he likes me, and that he's going to break up with her. I don't think I ever stopped likeing him and he didn't stop liking me, but I don't want to be the cause of any breakup. He's the perfect guy and I do like him but I don't know what to say when he says he's going to break up with his gf. What should I do?
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well darling, of course you dont want to be the cause of any break up, but its really not your fault.when he says that to you just say you dont want to be the cause.and if or when he breaks up with his gf just make him wait atleast a week or two so it wont look so bad.thats what i would do haha.
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hope i helped :)
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ok i've been in a somewhat similar situation.
at my girlfriend's school, she has quite a few people who blame her for my breakup with my ex, who also goes to said school. my ex hates her now, even though she's not the reason we broke up.
he obviously likes you, and you like him too apparently. if he does break up, you guys will need to wait a while before you go out. at least a month, i'd say.
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Firstly, I'd like to say how nice of a person you are for not wanting to cause a breakup. But this guy's relationship is asking for one anyway, because even if you don't go out with him, he seems like he wants to go out with you even though he has a girlfriend - which means the relationship between him and her is nothing special i'm afraid, so don't feel too bad when they inevitably break up.
Does he know that he broke up with you for a reason that wasnt true? You should tell him this and sort of let him know you like him but don't start any proper 'flirting' until he's out of his relationship. Because his girlfriend might find out and hate you, it's not nice to be hated, right? And imagine how you'd feel if you were her? So, put things on pause for a bit until he breaks up.
When he tells you he's going to break up with his girlfriend, you should say something along the lines of "well if youre not happy then go ahead" or "good luck" and if he then asks if you'd be his girlfriend instead, say "Okay, but dont break up with me until you know for sure im disloyal this time! Oh and dont be disloyal yourself, break up with this girl first." Good luck to you!
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