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please, help.
all right, it seems like everytime i ask a question about this, i never seem to get a straight-forward answer. so, please.. give me an answer, no matter what the outcome is. Well, here's my story. There's a boy. we went out in 8th grade. (we are now in 10th) When we went out, it was for two and a half months. I still have really strong feelings for him, (i know 2 yrs later, im pathetic) well, i just really want to know if you guys think he still has feelings for me, too. if its possible. When I call him, he doesn't always answer..which is expected. When he does answer, however, we talk for about an hour. When we talk he always makes sexual jokes, and occasionally, he says i love you when i have to leave.In the hallways when we see each other he always gives me a weird look and he does these really weird things, like he'll call me punk, or.. say dweeb.. but i know he's just kidding. Also, one day we were talking, and he said that it feels weird to go out with someone. and i asked if it felt weird when we went out, and he said no. So, my question is: Do you still think he has feelings for me, and is just afraid to tell me? and if so, how can i get him to open up? or do you think he doesnt?
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i think you both have feelings for eachother, hes signs give it away. id love to answer this more in-depth but why did you break up in the first place? that can play a major role in this. anyway since i dont know that il just answer this based on facts presented =P. if i were you i would just flat out ask him if he still has feelings for you. i mean seriously what have you got to lose? if he doesnt, then he doesnt and you can go back to being friends. if he does, you can build another succesful relationship off of that. hope it helps, peace
Seanx
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Honestly, I think he may like you. When friends date, break up, and remain friends afterwards it often leads to a tension that results in, years later, them dating again. If indeed he does have the same interest in you that you have in him, it appears it is up to you to make the first move in bringing up the subject. Ask him out.
The other thing to consider would be that he considers you to be such a close friend that he feels comfortable saying "I love you" to you. Through my high school years I had a friend just like that, constantly teasing me, saying he loved me, and I loved him too. We never dated, we were just close.
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Well, sounds like him having feelings for you may be the case.
How do you get him to open up? Ask him out!
He said that, other than YOU, it feels weird to go out with someone. Seems to me you are the only girl he has ever gone out with that really ever made an impression on his life.
Yah, maybe he's afraid to tell you. Therefore, you have to be the gutsy one here...
ygs-29/f
P.S. Having really strong feelings for someone 2 years later isn't pathetic. Don't ever think things like that.
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