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Parents being irrational about chilling with freinds
My parents are telling me to re ask this question and to tell you that I am a guy because they want to see your response if you know im a guy.
Is it right for my parents to not let me hang out with my friends when no adults are around? My mom says she does not trust me even though she does not have a reason. The friends are three guys and we are all 14-15 years old. We have good morals, we do not like doing bad stuff therefore we do not do bad stuff. We all have good beliefs and are not like the average teenage male population that looks at porn and does drugs and other bad stuff. The kid’s house that we like to hang out at his mom is single and has a job so during the day she is not home. My parents will not let me hang out over there, can you explain why? Also do you think it is right for them to keep me from hanging out with my best friends?
-Eric
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I remembered your question for when you were a girl. I figured you were just playing with me!
If your mom says she doesn't trust you then you need to be talking to her and find out why not.
Do your friends visit your home? Do your parents know them? If not, maybe you need to let your parents get to know them a little better. It makes a big difference.
I am so glad you aren't into drugs and have good beliefs. Temptation is very strong for young men your age. Your parents know this and just don't
want you getting into trouble. It is very easy to
take a chance and "try" something when there isn't an adult around to keep an eye on you.
I don't think it is right to keep you from hanging out with your friends. I don't think that is really what they are doing. They just want to know you are safe. So, hanging out where there is an adult around isn't really asking to much of you. :)
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