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Well pick on guy like me
Ok I this guy that I used to like wants me to go out with him but the reason I stopped was because he use to pick on me(big sign of love)Now I think I should go out with him but the school years almost up and he isn't going to be at the same middle school that we were in last year so what should I do if he decides to ask me I mean we talk on the phone now.But we have been friends for so long what if it doesn't work out and our friendship is ruined by this little feeling.What should I do?
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i think that you should cool your feelings for him down, what ive learned is that if your TOO good of friends with someone, it gets weird cuz they are like a brother or sister to you. you could be one of his best friends or you could just say to hell with it and pursue him as a BF. if it didnt work out you could tell him "cant we be friends like we used to be" or somethin like that. im still friends with some of my Xs...just not all of them =P. you could still maintain a frienship after you broke up...it just depends on why you might break up in the first place. or you could last a long time with him and have a great relationship. i would just go for it if i were you because you dont have much to lose. in most situations you will remain friends anyway. good luck.
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Yeah...well i would go out with him but if he asks you to be his girlfriend explain to him your reasons. Tell him that you don't want to lose your friendship because of the end of your dating period. Go out with him and have fun...because just cause you go on a date doesn't mean you have to hook up with the guy. Maybe in the future...who knows?!
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I don't think you should go out with him. Here's why.
A. He used to pick on you! Thank God you got out of that relationship. Like you sarcatically stated, big sign of love. No! He doesn't appreciate you and he could force you to do things you don't want to. You are your own person and are equal to him. If he doesn't realize that, then you don't need him.
B. School's almost out. Give yourself the summer to meet new people and think things over. Deal with it next year.
C. I've gone out with a guy in another school and BELIEVE ME it is sooo hard because you hardly ever get to see eachother and it always works out that when you have a huge project due, they have no homework, and then when you have no homework, they have a huge project due. lol. it stinks, but it's life.
D. You should try to get through next year being friends. Next year i will be at high school and trying to stay in touch with my friend who is going to a private high school for next year. And I'm not sure how that's going to work out. Believe me, it's ten times harder if you're trying to be MORE than friends.
Sorry if i was a little harsh, but i hope i got the message across. im really a friendly person, i just have strong views, lol. =) Hope I helped.
-SlushPuppy
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