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hi my name is nikki and i am 18 i have a boyfriend who i cant get through to. i mean we were good for a while then all of asudden he starts talking to these girls and he told me he is tempted and his old self is trying to come out again. we have a 8 month old daughter and we are always arguing. well my question is what should i do? i have been with him for a little over a year and i dont know what to do anymore. i need help
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The problem with long term relationships with young people is that one person in the relationship feels the need to explore. You're the only thing he's ever known and maybe he just wants to test the waters. But now that you have a child, IT'S NOT OKAY. He made a committment that he can't back out of. If he feels the need to be with other women, put him in a serious reality check. If his "oldself" is coming back then remind him that you're the reason he changed from his "oldself" in the first place. If he is getting tempted, then tell him that he better do nothing more than flirt and then come back home and pay attention to you and the baby. But if he is just some horny man you can't contain and have around your baby girl, then realize that it's for the better and you can start a better life with your kid without the worries of your inconsiderate boyfriend.
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Tell him to either stop the BS and own up to his responsibilities as a parent or to screw off.He's committed to you and your child,so if he's going to be a bitch about it kick him out and get him to pay child support.
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I'm not an expert on this topic since I'm only 15, but I think that your best bet would be to really sit down with him and talk to him about this situation. You need to "get through" to him before this problem gets to out of control that your daughter will be affected by it. I'm sure he will listen if you show a strong concern about it. Good luck!
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