okay soo I'm 13, and I'm a girl.
and I have this best friend.
and I love her soo much.
she means the world to me.
and about a month ago..
she was at my house and
I was asleep and she overdosed.
and the amblence came and took her.
and ever since then I think about her every day.
I cry alll the time over it.
I love her soo much.
and I write stuff and I always
right blogs about her and stuff.
and Its soo hard to explain it
like how much I miss her and everything.
I haven't seen her since it happened.
well once for like 5 minutes.
and its kills me.
and shes grounded.
and today she is going to
get her haircut and I'm meeting
her up there just so I can see her.
and I'm going to camp with her.
and the past few months Iv'e thought
that I might be bi.
and I have done some stuff with her.
and me and my friend were talking
and she says it could be that I love her
like more than a friend.
like in love with her.
but I'm not sure if I am.
and I cant get it outta my head.
I mean come on I might be in love with
a girl..it sounds kinda dumb.
but can someone help??
beckyboo answered Tuesday June 5 2007, 1:59 pm: You might just feel really close with your best friend and not want her to get hurt-- like a sisterly bond.
If you think it's something more-- which I really wouldn't know, it's up to you to figure it out-- don't confront her unless you're ready for awkwardness and drama. The same way you wouldn't tell your best guy friend if you had a crush on him.
Just because you have strong feelings for her doesn't make you bi. If you're 13, you're "hormonally unbalanced". Many 13 year olds question their sexuality and probably are confused-- it's normal at this age.
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