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WHAT DO I DO..
Im Thirteen, and im a female.
Im going into 8th grade, and this
guy i like is going into 9th.
We like each other, but im having troubles
trying to get to where I..trust him
I guess you can say. He's had a past
girlfriend, who im very very good friends
with. And they well.. went out for about
two years and had sex. And Me and Him
just recently broke up from like just a one
month relationship, i broke up with him.
And I here him & my friend he had a past
relationship with had started talking,
and said they still love each other,
but im suppose to not know that, so i cant
confront him or her about it. And he says
I love you. And i say i love you too, or
the other way around. All over text.
We do not whatsoever seem to ever talk on
the phone.
So i guess what im asking is,
how do i control all these feelings of
knowing they have a past relationship,
and knowing they have recently talked about
it. Although he says he loves me.
<3
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I really don't think controling these feelings would be a perfect idea. Only because if they're talkin behind your back then there is a problem. You said you and her were very very good friends, but that was her ex first and it's usually a rule not to date your friends ex (not too cool and causes issues as you can see). But I think you should ask him if they talked recently and if he still likes her on any level. Holding in these feelings won't help the situation and him saying he loves you is....wrong if he still loves her. So i hope i helped and that you don't get hurt and that things become better!!!
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If he's into someone else and he can't even tell you that he loves you outside of a text message,just move on.Being only 13,you have PLENTY of time to meet the right person...not to mention the fact that he's going into high school so he'll be getting introduced to new people and things anyway.
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