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i think he's "into me"
Ok. There is this guy that lives next to me. He's my pastor's husband and I like them both. they are nice people but...he acts so weird around me sometimes. like when i'm out side practicing for cheerleading or color gaurd or whatever he comes over and we start talking...which is fine...but the last time his wife was away and he was acting different. He kissed my forehead and told me he loved me. He kinda played the whole guilt thing like..."I'm alone" and whatever. He asked me if I wanted to coem over and talk with him but my sister was molested and i noticed that he was adding what we call "pick-ups" like saying we could have pop and watch tv or a movie or whatever i wanted to do so he was giving me power. I decided not to go over b/c i knew something was...not right. what do i do?? i feel totally weird around him
help me please
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There's no need for you to feel weird, you made the right decision. It wouldn't be right to just go over. Even when someone does play the guilt thing - don't fall into it. It's not worth it. Just be yourself around him, you don't have to feel awkward and you can control that. If he has some sort of a problem with you not coming over, he's not worth your time. You two should still be able to keep your friendship going strong and if you can't because of this, your relationship isn't healthy. I don't really know what else to say... sorry.
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