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no bf...?
ok..srry this is gonna be long...i got a bf at school..even though i'm not allowed to have a bf (i'm 15/female) and a week and a half later my mom and dad found out...and i've only hugged and held hands w/ my bf,fyi...my dad said i can hold hands w/ him..and hug him only, but as friends. so i asked him " why would i hold hands w/ one of my friends" he said "take the offer or leave it" and i told my bf all this and he said "whatever ur parents dont know wont hurt them" but if i ever went out w/ my bf to the movies or anywhere my parents said we had to go w/ a group...and i want to kiss him and stuff but if i went out w/ him its for sure that my parents would ask "did you two kiss" and i cant lie..i dont want to lie...i have my parents trust and loosing it would be awful...but i'd die if i had to be his gf and not kiss him or anything...and i like him a lot! any advice?
thanks
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I know this is going to sound lame, but you should always try to keep your parent's trust. You'll know your parents the rest of your life, and just one little high school boyfriend shouldn't outweigh your want for a trusting relationship between you and your parents. Just continue to be trusted by your parents, and they will eventually let you have a boyfriend. They can't hold on to you forever, so it won't be long before they trust you enough to have a boyfriend. Now don't get me wrong, continue to hang out with your friend/boyfriend, but don't go against your parents just to sneak a kiss. You'll have many boyfriends before you get married.
Hope I helped!
--Jack
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