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some one please help me with this love argument
i rely need help i was on the phone to my girlfreind and we were sayin good bye here the convo basically
me:cya tommorow , i love you
her:no you dont
me:what?
her:you dont love me and i know you dont
me:ye i do
etc so it went on and in the end she ended up cancellin all of the plans we had getin in a mood with me and sayin tht i didnt love her when i even said i did!! i havent a clue what i wrong wit her she said its her hormones but she said that like 10 days ago im so confused and i realy dont want to loose her because i realy do love her but she cant see that and i know she may split up with me because f it is her hromones she will what can i do?? someone please help me
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Well, there are a couple possiblities here:
1) Maybe you did something unintentionally that made her feel that you don't love her. Maybe talking to another girl, or not calling her when she thought you should, or not seeming to listen to her when she was talking. It could be anything, and it could be something really little that she's blown out of proportion because she's sensitive or insecure. You need to ask her why she thinks you don't love her. Tell her you really do love her, and you want to know if you did something that made her think you don't, so you can be sure not to do it again. Sometimes girls don't like to tell you why they're upset, because they don't want to sound stupid or over-sensitive. Or they think you should just know what's wrong. It's silly, I know, but that's what girls do (I know, cuz I'm a girl!). Just try to find out why she said that.
2) The other possibility (and I hope it's not this) is that she doesn't feel the same about you as she once did, and wants to break up, but doesn't want to tell you that because she doesn't want to hurt you. So maybe she's trying to start a fight, or make it sound like it's you that doesnt love her, so it will be easier to break up. Another silly thing that people do!
Just talk to her and do whatever you can to assure her of your love... and good luck!
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Ok why don't you sit her down and talk to her after you've given her a bit of space. If she's upset about something she obviously taking it out on you but it doesn't mean you have done anything wrong.
Sometimes people take things out on other people that they love the most.
She could have perhaps been looking for attention from you.
Sit down with her and start off by saying that she means the world to you and you love her very much and ask her if you have at any stage given her an impression that you don't love her.
Let her know that you are there for her to talk to when ever she needs.
Hope I helped. :)
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Just chill. Leave her alone for a lil bit and let her cool down. If she really wants to be with you, no question about it..then she will come back to you. If I am wrong I apologize ahead.
Good luck.
I hope that I helped.
*Keosha*
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