ok well see theres this guy and i went out with him for 3 and 1/2 weeks. well then we broke up, recently i told him i still liked him but he has a girlfriend. i ask my friends for advice and they tell me i need ti win him back. how do i win him back. its summer break so all i can do is talk to him on AIM. but if we start going out i can go to the movies with him. But how do i win him back, how do i flirt with him, and do it all on AIM.
just have a normal conversation with him and then just say something like "i had a dream that we were back together..." and then wait for his reply. the main key is patience. it takes time to win a guy. if he doesn't really 'connect' with what you are trying to do, i would just leave him be. It takes 2 people to have a relationship. It's not fair if you want to go out with him and he doesn't but you still are flirting with him. You can't make him decide. it's his decision. however, if he does kinda flirt with you... just keep on doing what you are doing and don't rush into it.
just like Icey said... be prepared for a cat fight cuz his girlfriend is gonna be soo pissed when she finds out his Ex gf is trying to win him back.
icey0990 answered Thursday May 31 2007, 2:53 pm: Well..just start off by having a normal convo with him..ask him what hes been up to,plans for summer,etc. Then be like..'can i ask you somethin? have you ever thought about us getting back together?" or..'what if i told you i still like you?" ask him that first..if he has no interest then i would let it go...theres always a possibility in the future. if he has an interest when you ask him this..continue to flirt and ask him if he wants to hang out..just be prepared for his gf to be pissssssed. i know i would be
hope it works out
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