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finally dating.
me and this guy have liked eachother for a couple months now and we've already kissed and stuff but he never got around to asking me out [ but it was kind of like we were already dating, you know but it wasn't offical or nothing ] well he finally asked me out a little ago and nothing's really seemed to change.
it sort of doesnt' feel like we're going out and i'm a little worried cause i don't know if that's a bad thing or what does that mean it's just confusing and hard to explain. like for the past couple months it's basically like we've been going out but now that it's offical we're kind of just like "oh we're going out" cause before we never held hands or nothing and we haven't yet as a couple.
i don't know exactly waht i'm asking just maybe if this has happened to anybody before how did you start transitioning it into like, boyfriend/girlfriend mode? or if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
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this actually did happen to me & my boyfriend now, we were friends & now we're going out. & i felt exactly how you do now, but if it already felt like you guys were going out & nothings changed, then it's goood. but i think, in time when you keep thinking oh yeah we're going out, then the feeling will go away. mine has alot just give it some time :]
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i think i would just go with the flow for a while, because you don't want to freak him out by all of a sudden acting all mushy gushy girlfriendish. Take it slow, maybe wait a couple of days before holding hands and after that, start like resting your head on his shoulder. you know, little hints. If you want him to hold your hand, just bump your hand into his a couple of times very gently, if he feels comfortable, he'll hold it, if not then just wait. It can be hard and confusing, but i hope things work out =]
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