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I love them BOTH
16/f
I'm really very confused.
I love my boyfriend and he knows it. We've been going out for 4 months or more. I've liked him for over a year.
There is also another boy. We will call him Brian. Brian knows the right things to say to me. I've fallen for him, and it kills me inside because I know it's wrong. I'm in a relationship. Brian always tells me that he likes me. He gives me presents at school because we have classes together. My boyfriend doesnt go to my high school. Brian has liked me since November. And I liked him before I started going out with my boyfriend, but it was never enough.
Things have been going very badly with my boyfriend. I still care about him a ton, but he is constantly unhappy. We get in so many fights and I always end up crying and he is always upset about one thing or another. I dont think I do anything right. And then there is Brian. He likes me for all of the right reasons. He likes ME and my personality and doesn't care if I look like crap.
I dont know what I want right now.
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Am I terrible for considering it?
If I've picked my boyfriend every time before, does that mean something?
If I'm always thinking about Brian, does that mean something else?
Once my boyfriend kissed me and I thought about making out with Brian. (which I've never actually done)
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Well it sounds to me like you want to be with brian..not your bf. You might think its unfair on your bf for liking brian..but its actually unfair on him if you stay with him when really you want to be with brian.Also if this brian is still giving you presants ect. when your with somebody else..then he must really like you :) And if you and your bf are always fighting..then maybe it would do you both some good to spend time apart with different people. I think you should see how things go with Brian..if things dont work out then u will know it was your bf who u loved :) Good Luck x x
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