I really would like to pop my cherry BEFORE my first time having sex because I don't want it to hurt the first time I have sex, I want it to be special and feel good the entire time. And I don't want to have to stop because of the pain being unbearable. I've heard it really hurts, on the scale of one to ten, ten hurting the most, what would you rate it? Is there anyway I can pop my cherry through masturbating? And where exactly is your cherry? Does anyone have like a link that explains it or something? Thanks!
advicegirl367 answered Sunday May 27 2007, 5:17 pm: Wow. Don't listen to sillyrob. He's an asshole.
Anyways, I hope you know that you only "pop your cherry metaphorically." The part that feels uncomfortable, or even hurts, is the stretch of your vagina, and when the penis tears your hymen. Your hymen is a really thin layer of skin in your vagina (some girls don't even have this.) Sometimes, the penis merely pushes it aside. It is possible to break it through masturbation, if you go deep enough. For some girls, their first time could hurt a lot, and for other girls, it doesn't hurt at all, it's just merely uncomfortable.
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