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idk wat 2 do
I have 2 best friends and they both hate each other and i cant hang out with both of them at the same time without them fighting and they're both always telling me 2 ditch the other one but they're both are my best friends i don't know what i would do without both of them but im so frustrated that im about 2 end both friendships so please tell me what i should do(14/f)
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talk to each one of your freinds alone,without the other one there.Tell them that you can hang out with the other if you want and not to tell you who to hang with or who to ditch cuz its your desicion who to hang out with and that you love them both.You cant make them hang out together by force just cuz you want them to.Hang out with them seperatley not all together.If they dont listen and still bitch about eachother and tell you not to hang out with the other then dont talk to them for a while and theyll come apologizing
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Have had this happen to me before, the best thing id advise you to do, since you cant hang around with both of them at the same time, would be to actually ditch both of them. Would be the only way its 'fair' i suppose. Worked for me,....
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I have almost the same problem. The other person thinks i hate the other person, and vice versa. They both know ii hang out with both of them. So, what i do, is sometimes I'll invite one person...and then the next day or so...I'll hang with the other friend. We all hang out, but not together.
As for you, you could tell your friends how you feel, but i wouldn't. Hang out with each of them separately so you still hang out with your best friends.
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well they're probably not good friends if they are telling you to ditch another friend. but anyway, i'm not gonna go on about how you should ditch them cause obviously that's not a good idea cause you'll be losing both friends.
okay, NEVER ever talk about the other one around the one you're talking to. i sorta wish you gave names, but you have bff 1 and bff 2. do not hang out with them together... even at your birthday party! i didn't have one cause i didn't want drama, but have two separate ones or just don't have one. cause it's not gonna fly, babe.
just hang out with them separately although it will be hard to stay friends. most girls like one girl that they can tell EVERYTHING to, but the fact that you have to hide stuff from each of them it just silly. HONESTLY, i think you should stay friends with them, but slowly create space so they're both not all up in your crib. try to find a new girl you want to be your best friend so that you can easily adapt and actually TELL her things. maybe you guys won't be BEST friends, but at least you'll still be friends and happy.
don't end both friendships, whatEVER you do. trust me, you will regret it. i've had experience... don't ever "end" a friendship like get into a fight and stop talking. one day, you will be in a classroom with 30 kids, not know a SINGLE one and the teacher will say "okay pick a partner" and everyone will go with someone and you and one of those two girls will be left. don't put yourself in an awkward situation. just faaadee away incase something like that DOES happen, you can just be like, "hey girl i haven't seen you in forever!" it won't be awkward and you guys will maintain a steady relationship.
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