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OMG Diary


Question Posted Saturday May 26 2007, 5:23 pm

holy sh*t
I lost my JOURNAL!!!
my parents are split up, so when I travel from house to house I put my diary at the bottom of my bag when I go to school.
I'm 15/f and I can't find it anywhere.
that book holds everything. I am a lesbian, and no one even knows it, have a huge crush on my (female) teacher, and I wrote stuff about people in my class that I hate.
My school is also TINY (private, all girls)
if someone found it and read it, everything would be all over school in a day, and I think i'd want to go to public school immediately even though I love my school.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?! should i just keep looking, or should i confront some of the people in my class, just in case they have it so i can have it back without EVERYONE knowing?

I am honestly in tears, this is the worst week of my life and I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP!
p.s. please don't lecture me on how i need to protect things like this from getting into the wrong hands, I know that, it was my fault but I really need help with what to do right now!


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uisforukelele answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:19 pm:
first of all, here's what i would do... do NOT tell anybody at school, and do NOT tell your parents that you lost the journal. because then they will know that it exists. go through everything you have... dirty clothes hamper, whatever it is, look through it. look through your mom's house and your dad's house before you tell your friends. i've had an experience like this where i thought that i put something in my bag (out of habit because i do it every day) and then it ends up not being there, and i find it exactly where i left it. if you don't find it at either of your parents' houses, go ahead and tell your parents that you lost it. if they haven't seen it, talk to your best friend about it and have her keep an eye out for it. other than that, there's not much you can do. i'm pretty sure it will show up somewhere in your house though.

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x_s_a_r_a_h_x answered Sunday May 27 2007, 12:18 pm:
Aww don't stress about it, it will turn up somewhere.
when I loose something, it's always in the first place I looked when I re-search everywhere.
Just search allround you dad's house & your mum's house and it will be there somewhere.
If you can't find it at either house, then maybe someone handed it in to lost and found, if you have one at your school?

Plus if you keep it in the bottom of your bag, how would it manage to escape into someone else's possesion?

Don't worry, you will find it! It'll probably turn up when you're not looking for it.

Sarah

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orphans answered Sunday May 27 2007, 11:35 am:
hey

whoaa girlll, calm down it's OKAY. you will find it.

how could it have possibly gotten into those people's hands? it's very unlikely. just relax. when you get to your mom's house, look everywhere. when you get to your dad's house, look everywhere. it's probably somewhere that you don't go often, or it's probably in a very obvious place. when i look for something, i have to look and if i can't find it, i go somewhere like the mall or to my friend's house, come back and look for it again cause you need a new fresh look on the area you are searching before you can find it.

don't keep thinking negative thoughs - it won't help you. think positive. "i will find it. it's probably right in front of my eyes and i just can't see it. that's all. plus, who cares if anyone finds out? it's all gonna be okay."

i hope you find it, babe, and no worries, promise?

CONGRATS ON FINDING YOUR JOURNALL :]

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Emilyx3 answered Sunday May 27 2007, 11:32 am:
i would just keep on looking for it .
and tell at least one of your parents
so when they do find it, they know what you're talking about.
or tell someone you trust, and tell them that if they find it, they wont read it.
make them promise you.

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