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Crushy.
Okay. Theres this guy that i know. Were friends. he's 20, i'm 15.
About a month ago, I was on my period (I get really boy crazy on my period) and I had this dream where he kissed me, and I kissed him back, and when I woke up, my heart was all pounding and I was all lovey dovey. I guess I kind of liked him a little before that but I never really admitted it to myself, until then, where it all came out.
A couple weeks ago, my friends mom (who notices everything) told me that she thinks he likes me. She didn't really give me a good reason why, so i'm not saying its true, but the possibility really fired me up. So now i'm all crazy inside and thinking about him all the time.
Well I know he's wayy too old for me and even if he wasn't, i dont think im ready to date yet.
How can I get over it? Or just a way to realese all this crush-energy inside me [=
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You're 15. He's 20.
The odds of you getting together are very slim, as a 5 year difference would be for most anyone. You have to realize that when you're a teenager and someone you have feelings for is five years older than you, the age difference lies bigger until you're older. He's too old for you is basically what I'm trying to say, and it's illegal for you two to date because of the age difference. Besides, when someone is that far ahead of you (age wise) they're also ahead of you mentally and may expect more from you sexually, mentally, and to make healthier decisions. A 20 year old has had a lot more experience than a 15 year old so he may get annoyed because you're so much younger and at that time, there's such a contrast between personalities etc. and I'm guessing you don't know who you are yet - when he's old enough to be in college! Believe me - he's not going to matter to you later.
Cherish,
Shyamali
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You said it all-- "crush."
At 15, you can get a crush on an older guy easily.
It's part of growing and maturing-- but he is too old. And, it would be construed as illegal for him to "like" you and cause him legal problems.
The two ways to "get over it" is to persue guys your own age and not see this 20 year old again-- avoid him-- friendship over, done, finished, as 15 years olds can not be friends with 20 year olds.
Out of sight-- out of mind.
Hang with your friends at school!
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