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Ok, me and my friends together make a group of 10 people exactly, I've always been the queit one who's sort of left out, on of the girls int he group is really nice and her birthday is coming up. I had this great idea for a birthday presemt but couldnt buy it alone (too expensive) so i got one of the other girls in on it, then one after one they all entered the pool and it's now a group present, and they're all kinda taking over and im so afriad that in teh end she wont even appreciate it or y'know.. i know it sounds selfish but i really wanted her to know it was from ME and that i put time and effort in to it, but i cant tell her since we're all paying for it together, and its from us all, you know.. i just kinda hate it. I wanted it to be a special gift and now its not. Should I just forget about it? Or do i have anothe option? Remember: im the quiet one of the group so i cant really say anything to them
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mention it to the girl you told in the first place, she knows what happened and im sure if shes a decent person she'll give you credit.
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When you get the present all together volunteer to be the one to wrap it and bring it to the party. Make sure this girl sees that you brought it and also try and be the one to present it to her. If your friends insist on doing it themselves remind them that you were the one who came up with the idea in the first place.
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