a problem at a party on TV my parents will kill me~please
Question Posted Thursday May 24 2007, 12:04 am
13/f i was at a televised party and my best friend and i in a shot were in the background about to kiss we were touching lips even. im not allowd to date anymore but it was my best friend(a guy). once my parents watch it again tomarrow ill be dead. and whyd they put it on air. what do i do at school tomarrow? nobody knows we kiss people think theres nothing romantic between us anymore. what do i do?i need an answer before 6-7am tomarrow or tonight pleaasse. also i changed as something different once i got there. put on alot more eyeliner and everything usual im gothic people say. but my mom thinks i wore a nice little blue dress. but ill deal with that. i need help with us kissing. and possibly my clothes.
Anyways, fess up to your parents. They're probably going to find out anyways, so you need to tell the truth & bare the punishment. You KNEW the party was televised & acted like that anyways. Didn't you realize that there was a chance something you'd do would get put on camera? All in all, this is your fault & you need to take responsibility for your actions. Don't blame the person who's airing it, BLAME YOURSELF. YOU dressed that way. YOU wore all that makeup. YOU knew the party was being filmed. YOU knew it would probably end up somewhere where your parents could see it. And YOU did what you did anyways knowing certain things. This is no one else's fault. This is your fault. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
annon answered Thursday May 24 2007, 3:35 pm: you need an answer quick and trust me youll be wanting to lie to em but make it bloody quick and tell him first what your gonna say and plan it right now or later when you see him again. the best thing i can think of is to say to them something like "he was real upset about *something* and *something or other happend* so you both got real emotional and you thought it was the best thing to do at that time although yr not allowed to date. but tell them your not goin out with him and was just a burst of emotion.
BUT if ya think that aint good enough because of the type of kiss and how it looked on screen but if its not shown do not look at all surprised and try to act normall they might get suspicious [ annon's advice column | Ask annon A Question ]
confusedemokid13 answered Thursday May 24 2007, 3:31 pm: You are going to be dead from the looks of it. Your parents may ground you for a while and I think the best way is to take whatever punishment your parents give you. Be very mature about the whole thing say "I know what I did was wrong..." stuff like that. They might not be as hard on you if you pretend to be hard on yourself. As for everyone at school, I never care what people think so I don't know what to do there. Sorry I hope I helped in some way. [ confusedemokid13's advice column | Ask confusedemokid13 A Question ]
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