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boy blues
So, my boy & have have been dating for 2 & a half years..we r both 18 & we r going to college next year...our relationship has been sort of rocky latly which sucks. yesterday we got out of school at 1 & he was going to call me after he went to best buy with his bestfriend. we were supposed to hang out but he never ended up calling me & ditched me for his friend. He has done this A LOT... & every time i get mad, not only because we didnt hang but that he didnt call me to tell me what was going on.. i no they are best friends & dont want to come between them but they are in the same classes, work together, and hang out ALL of the time.. i told my boy that if it happens again i would dump him.. idk what else to do. im losing all trust in him but still want to make it work & if we do break up..all of my friend wont hang with me anymore kas they are his friends to...please help...any advice???!!
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I understand that you must be feeling pretty torn about this, relationships are hard and both people need to put the effort into them to make them work. It sounds like you're the one that's putting most effort into it at the moment.
If you feel that the spark's gone, you could try inviting him over and lighting a few candles, play some sexy music and getting romantic or something.
Come up with some romantic ideas to put the spark back into your relationship, that should help with getting him to spend a lot more time with you instead of his mate.
Tell him how you feel, if your friends are true friends then they will stand by you no matter what. Don't worry what they'll think if you break up, it's your life and you can't put yourself in confusion and missery just because you're scared of what they'll think of you.
Hope that helps, if you want me to help you any more, just ask :)
Sarah
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