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moving and making friends
I'm pretty shy, and quiet unless i'm with my good friends. Well this summer i'm moving and will be a freshmen and won't know anyone. I just wan't to start over and not be the shy quiet girl people at my school know me as. What are some good ways to make friends? It's pretty hard for me since i'm so shy.
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I'm just like you with the shy and quiet deal, so I know what you'll be gonig through. This might sound crazy, but you should change your hairstyle. I think changing your look could give you a whole new confidence to be more outgoing. (I would definitely do this if I was moving.) High school is so different from middle school to me. There's a little bit less cliques, so people could be looking for new people to hang out with. When you first move, look for kids your age in your neighborhood. If see someone, you should casually go for a walk or something and maybe just be like "hey, how old are you/what school do you go to/how are you" anything to start a little conversation. If that doesn't work out, talk to someone on your bus if you go on one, or talk to someone in your first class. If you think they sound pretty cool, ask them if you could meet some of their friends or sit with them at lunch. Once you meet at least 2 people, it should be easy to go from there. I know you're thinking omg but I'm too shy to do that. Your gonna be in a whole new place though so you can be whoever you want to be. Hope I helped. If you need me to help you out anymore, you can ask my at my column or IM me xkellxx.
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wow i know how you feel this happend to me too! the best thing to do is be heard if you want something show ppl ur not afriad to go get it or go after it.when you get into class, find someone to sit next to that you look interested in, the ebst thing to do is let people know your there dont stand in the corner sit in the middle and let people recognize you
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make an entrance!!! be a head turner the moment you get there!!! smile and be open, i used to be extremely shy but i decide to just make myself heard go up to people and ask for help and just say your new, thats usually a good conversation starter and if they talk to you speak up whatever you do DON'T MUMBLE
hope this helps<3
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