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how do you tell the difference in someone who is "pedifile-ish" or just friendly with an attraction to you?
ive known this guy about 3 months. he tells me he thinks im hott and stuff, but also that im like one of his best friends [especially at work]. and hes given me one hug but otherwise never laid a finger on me. we get along really well. basically acting like bro and sis, i mean were tight. hes never done or said anything suggestive. but i have a hard time with trust ya know, so i just want opinions..
like what are some signs or something?
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Pedifilia is a sexual attraction to children and younger kids (even teens)...
So, using the term pedifile means he is an adult (older man) and you are a teenager?
Pedifiles can be your best friend in order to gain your trust and friendship, then sexually attack you when the opportunity presents itself.
Do not allow him to hug you or touch you.
And personally, if you are asking yourself (and us here) the question-- then it's your own gut instinct that is warning you...
ALWAYS trust your first impression, your gut reaction and your instincts-- your sixth sense.
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If you're not into him, then don't lead him on or flirt of any kind, if you want to just be friends, then make that clear to him.
It sounds as though you're just really good friends though and friends hug sometimes right?
I think you should just watch out incase he starts touching you differently to normal or anything like that. He's probably just being friendly 'cos he thinks you're attractive.
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sounds like he's just a friend, but be careful if he "accidentally" touches you in a certain way. or looks at you like bending over or something like that. make sure he never thinks ur interested and dont flirt.
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