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how do you know
how do you know when a guy likes you because ive recently started talking to this guy and we flirt and shit and he was asking me sexual questions and we were going back and forth than he asked me who i like and i wouldnt tell him than i asked him and he said nobody and he was asking me what grades this kids in and shit and then he said that he would tell me who he liked if i dont him but then he talks about fucking other gurls and stuff and i dont know if he veiws me as just a friend or as something more its like he likes one minute and than the next hes treating me like a friend should i play him at his own game or what
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Game Playing is Stupid.
Boys can be stupid. This boy is being pretty stupid.
Basically, he wants you to show your hand first and say you like him, so he has the control of the situation. He wants you to the chasing, take the risks, and then do all the work. You are already playing the same game as him and trying to get him to tell you first. If you both keep doing that, you'll never get anywhere with this guy.
But that is probably a good thing because the truth is; guys who play that sort of game with you aren't really that into you. If they were, they would take the risk and say so, and they wouldn't keep talking about screwing around with other girls. He probably just wants to be wanted, and he thinks you want him. Any girl would be just as good as you, as long as that girl wanted him.
To sum up: He's playing a game for control and attention, it's sort of selfish, and it probably means he isn't really that into you.
So decide what you want to do. You can tell him how you feel, and see if he walks all over you or not (I'm a pessimist I guess, but I bet he will) or if he is truly interested. You could play his game, but if he doesn't give in first, it will only frustrate you and cause you stress.
This might be a good guy to let go, treat like a friend for a while, put some distance between you, and see if he’ll come around with a bit more focus to show he is interested.
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He's confusing. I'm not sure whether he likes you or not simply because he talks about sexual topics with you but then goes around saying he'd fuck all these girls & whatever. If a guy liked you, he wouldn't do that. He'd treat you with respect. He'd be honest, and he'd be nice.
This guy sounds like an ass.
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a guy likes you when he shows you respect. this boy isnt showing you respect he is too immature.
charming ashlie
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