i finally saw my bf after a few months of him being in job corp. i had a great time. but when i got back i was told that he had planned on staying in town where i live and party with a girl he once cheated on me with. he told me about this and said he would only if i were there. but we forgot about it and left town together for the weekend he got out for. i know the girl is a player adn wants to be with him and me and her don't get along. at all, in fact we hate eachother. i told him that i dont' want him to talk to her or anything. which i think is right, but maybe not. i know that if i had cheated on him and talked to hte guy still he would freak adn i tell him that but he says i don't trust him enough. how should i tell him how i feel.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DepthofHeart answered Tuesday May 22 2007, 9:33 pm: You can't just tell him he can't talk to her. That sounds controlling. You need to explain to your boyfriend how you feel, and that you would feel better if he would not talk to her because of the history you have. Tell him it has nothing to do with not trusting him, tell him that because of how you feel about her that you don't feel comfortable with him hanging out with her.
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