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Hating her?
I don't know what's happening, my and my cousin are best friends ever since we were like 5 years old and well I hate to admit it but like deep inside of me I've been just randomly hating her for the last 2 years.
Maybe because she's kind of copying me? Somehow it's like she snoops at everything I do. Like we're both really high academic students but she's a year older than me so she can do things slightly better then me but is way mroe better then me socailly with relatives and family. Like she snoops in my interests and stuff and TRIES to like it!
Like one time I just got a super cool video from a different palce and my sister told me that when she went to her house she saw a list of movies to rent and all the movies are the movies that I bought by myself. Like maybe I wouldnt' get mad if maybe she asked me to borrow my movies or talk about how she likes it to but the fact that she's secretly liking it or something definitely gives me this suspicious feeling.
Like I like this certain thing for 10 years and she never liked it but recently since a BOY likes it, she all of a sudden 'likes' it when I KNOW that she doesn't. She just saves pictures of it and think she knows but she doesn't.
Ugh..here I go! I love her yet hate her at the same time! Now if I ever talk to her with my best friend all i mentain is what I hate about her or any bad stuff.
It's hurting me! What can i do? I'm techniquely nto back stabbing because I'm nto spreading rumours but I'm just talking out my feeling to my best friend who keeps it all a secret. Am i a bad person?
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no your not a bad person. youre just in a bad situation.
she sounds a little insecure and is just kinda going along with whatever someone else likes.
maybe just try distancing yourself from her for a little while. or if you guys hang out alot or talk alot then just kinda say the opposite of what she says.. like if she says "oh i really like that movie" or something like that..just disagree with it and be like "oh well...i thought it was okay but it wasnt amazing" or something like that. just as long as you arent lying to her about it or anything. just maybe try to not talk to her as much unless she approaches you,or maybe disagree with a few things she says. eventually she should stop
or if you want to confront her about it just talk to her and let her know how you feel.
xo kayy
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