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so theres this guy.
theres this guy, lets call him.. jon. well, i like jon. i really like him, in a LIKE like way. in the beginning of the year, when i met him, i really liked him a lot. we talked for a couple of days, but then just sort of stopped talking. a little while later we were talking again, and he asked me to sneak out with him. i said yes. we snuck out and made out in his car for like an hour. then, we kinda stopped talking again. i mean, we still said hi when we saw each other at school, but we didn't really talk. winter break came around, and he came on vacation. i missed him really badly. when he came back, he started talking to me again. he said he missed seeing me and hugging me at school and stuff. we talked for a while and snuck out again. then i had sex with him. after that, we sort of stopped talking again. then we snuck out together again, but we didn't really do anything. then we stopped talkng for a bit again. it was always like that. we'd talk for a few days, do something, n stop talking again. last monday, we started talking again. we talked every day. he told me i was cute n called me cutie n stuff. then he took me out on friday. we talked a bit, made out, n had sex. i had soccer yesterday, but after, i talked to him for a while. i had soccer today too, but i talked to him today too. i don't know what's going on. i don't know what he's doing or thinking or whatever. what should i do?
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really i think hes using you.
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hey
i think you should talk to him because if hes just using you for sex that isnt good. talk to him just the way you wrote to advicanators. ask him whats going on. if he answers you in a wrong way, like a way that you dont think sounds right just stop talking to him because then you will now hes bad news. and you might feel hurt but dont worry everyone gets hurt and now theres no turning back, because you already did all those things with him. but atleast you stopped him and you wont do it anymore
so just talk to him and ask him whats his deal.
xoxo johanny good luck!
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i know how you really like this guy..but i hate to say it..to me it sounds like hes using you.
sorry but think about it..you dont talk for awhile.. then you start talking and he has you sneak out and then you guys like make out and have sex? he tells you he misses you and then you guys start doing stuff again.but then you stop talking.
idk if he is..cause idk the entire situation.. but just try to pay attention to that a little more and if you notice it then just do something about it..unless of course you like the relationship you currently have with him
xo kayy
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