dude my mom is so gay. she is trying to make me feel guilty for no reason. she always yells at me and i hate it! she drinks and smokes when i told her don't do it around me. she does it anyways. then she cusses me out all the time. when i didn't do anything. i hate it. i just wish she would die. i hate her. i want to move out forever! what can i do. my brother said i could move in with him when he gets a house. and my aunt said the same thing.! help what can i do?
isis answered Sunday May 20 2007, 7:00 pm: It does sound as though your mum has severe problems. You don't say how old you are, but that is a lot to deal with at any age.
If you are able to, it may be better for both of you if you do move out for a while. Perhaps the shock of this would be enough to make her think about what is happening. I'm sure she doesn't want to lose you. There may be laws where you are governing who you are able to live with, maybe your brother or aunt could help on this?
If you do go and live with one of your relatives, perhaps you could have a family meeting with your mum and suggest she gets some counselling. People don't generally act that way unless there's something really wrong. If she agrees and it works, you could find that you are able to get close to her again.
Whatever you decide to do, please don't wish your mother to die? She might be making your life a living hell at the moment, but we only get one mum, and if this did happen, you would have to live the fact that you wished it on her for the rest of life. You're having a bad enough time at the moment, you don't need that as well.
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