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worried?
ok, this may seem kind of creepy - but its actually not. so theres this guy at work right. were pretty tight, we always talk at work and text outside of it. we pick on each other 24/7 but thats just how we get along, i mean were cool with each other you know? were like bro & sis basically. thats how i see it. were both natural flirts but i try not to [mainly because im in a serious relationship which i have NO intentions of ruining]. hes told me he likes me alot [as a friend] and everything, and that he thinks im hot and sexy and im his fave person there and blah blah blah whatever [yes he knows for sure i have a boyfriend]. he has never laid a finger on me though and has never done or said anything "suggestive". sounds cool right? heres the thing - im 16, and hes 33. but the thing is NOTHING is going on. i have no interest in him whatsoever besides friends [he knows this], and even if i did, still no chance because of our age. i mean just no. no no no. should i be worried though? i dont think hes a threat or anything, but i was raised to be very cautious, and basically just think the worst. i mean i know to be careful and all, but should i really be worried?
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He is definately attracted to you. He is probably a bit immature for his age (My girlfriend has a theory, that all guys are secretly 5 years old. Im inclined to agree)
Its probably not a problem. Instead of creepy its more pitiable. Hes probably kind of lonely and heres a pretty young girl who thinks hes pretty cool and enjoys talking to him and flirting with him. He likes the attention.
Just be careful not to send the wrong signals, but theres no problem remaining friends.
Just try not to bring the boyfriend around him too much (or vice versa) as it will probably make him jealous in that "oh how I wish that was me" kind of way.
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i think that he may just be doing this b/c hes bored. or maybe horny so you may want to tell him i feel uncomfortable with you callin me sexy ext.
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Personally? If he knows his boundaries and sticks to them, I wouldn't worry about it. Keep an eye out for fishy things-- but basically? Chill.
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