im fourteen and i was at school and we were in gym. and i was sitting in the bleachers talking to my boyfriend and all his guy friends. and we were just talking and sitting there. and then i relized i think i got my period. so i got up and it was all over my shorts. and all his friends started laughing at me it was so embarassing and he looked extemely embarassed too. and then hes told them to shutup and then they started laughing at me and him not sure why they were laughing at him. but now they always tease me and he always tells me just to ignore them but i cant and he alwayssss hangs out with them since there all like best friends and they constintly make fun of me what should i do?
disasterxwoah answered Friday May 18 2007, 7:35 pm: Guys at 14 are immature, and find even the dumbest stuff.. funny. Those guys need to grow up. Its a period. Girls get them, we can't control it and we can't stop it and start it when the time is right. You shouldn't be embarssed it happens to almost all girls. It's just blood and even though it's the worst thing that could have happened to you at the time, you'll look back on it and laugh one day.
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As for the immature punks ;) They might dwell on this one for a little while. Your boyfriend is right, you should just ignore them. Easier said then done I know I know. When they start to laugh at you, just laugh with them. They are only making fun of you because they know it bothers you. Don't show that it embarsses you. They want to make you feel uncomfortable and make you feel like an idoit, but you honestly have no reason to feel like that. So the next time they laugh at you; just stare at them, or laugh with them.. start talking about something else. Make it seem as though what they are saying doesn't bother you one bit, even if it does on the inside.
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It's going to be okay. You'll get use to the leaks and one day when they finally do grow up, it won't be funny to them anymore... just normal =) [ disasterxwoah's advice column | Ask disasterxwoah A Question ]
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