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This brat wont leave me alone!
I used to be friends with this girl for a couple of years. But then me and her got in a huge fight. So now we dont talk to each other anymore. I found out that shes not a real friend, shes just a fake one. The problem is that shes in my english, and science class and I sit right next to her. She's at my lunch and I dont sit with her no more. It's really hard to ignore her. Thats what all my friends have been telling me to do. Its just hard. Shes such a b*t** to me and she screams and yells and trys really hard to be mean to me. She talks bad about me to everyone. I havent talked to her since. The teachers always put us next to each other in class. :( Today I had to go into a different room with her because we got in another big fight. AND all my other friends like her, but some of them dont. How can I advoid her, and not have her in my pressnece? (sp?) Its compltely the most annoying situation I have ever had I want her to stop. And Im never becoming friends with her ever again. What should I do to make this stop?
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Ignoring her when you can is best, but it's hard if you're part of the same group of friends. Here's what I suggest - talk to your teachers and ask them not to put you together. Tell them you're trying to be mature and avoid a fight, but that she is not giving the same effort, so you're avoiding her in order to not upset her. Ask your friends to tell her they're her friend, but that if either of you starts talking bad about the other, they won't listen to either of you. Promise your friends that you will not talk bad about that girl or any of them and ask them not to allow anyone in the group to badmouth another.
Another thing you might consider is going to the school counselor and asking him/her to pull out the girl for some mediation and to come up with a plan for you two to get along and avoid conflict. You don't have to be friends, of course, but you're completely right in trying to avoid her.
I hope it works.
Sabine
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There is nothing you can really do to make her stop, I'm guessing the school counselor won't help at all. Just don't react to what she says about you or to you. If she gets a reaction out of you then she won't stop, because that's probably what she wants. Show her that you don't care what she says, that it doesn't affect you. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing she got to you.
::Jasmine::
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