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distance?
So, my boyfriend and i have been together nearly 2 years..im 18 and he's 19..im going to college next year in penssylvania..and he tells me that he's probably moving to georgia next month becuz his family is..I feel like he's really attatched to his family and that's the only reason why he's going but that he doesn't really want to, and i also feel like he has a lot of options up here( in jersey)..i'm worried that he's going to move there and that we're going to have to break up..he's been acting kind of distant lately and i am worried he's going to break up wit me before he leaves..i really want to keep up our relationship becuase we love each other a lot but i on't kno what to do..any suggestions?. he also said he would want to get an appartment wit me at some point..so idk what to do i've been really upset.please help
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I think you need to tell him how you feel about it.Let him know your worried and see what he
says.
I know that he probably wants to be with his family. Nothing really wrong with that.
The fact that he is 19 and should be doing something with his life on his own away from the family worries me just a little. I mean, this would be the perfect time to get out on his own. Maybe move closer to where you are going to be in school.
It all boils down to this. You are looking at a long distance relationship. It will be tough going. You need to find out what he is thinking soon. So talk to him about it. See if there is a future for the 2 of you.
I know you don't even want to think about the possibility of a breakup, but if its going to happen, better it be now. In all honesty, I think he has a little growing up to do. :)
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