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2 Boys! Big dilema


Question Posted Wednesday May 16 2007, 9:36 am

Ok im in such a F*cked up situation.. I was sorta seeing this guy and than he started ignoring me and all that and it was just getting really weird so i told him that i just wated to b friends he said ok and everything was fine.. than i started talking to his buddy who is also a very good friend of mine... and anyway we were starting to get close and than bout a week ago his lttle brother died :(:( r.i... so obviously this made a huge impact on everyones lives.. but anyhow me and this guy started to get close.. and than the other guy starts talking to me and asking me to do stuff with him again. like out of no where... and than the other guy with the brother all of sudden just tells me to go out with him???? like wtf?... i kno that they are really good friends so they dont want to hurt each other.. but this guy doesnt kno what he wants and i dont want to b with him.. i want the other one...
o my i kno i just confused everyone to death but im soo messed up i dont want to hurt either of them.. but i like one more than the other and i kno he'll treat me better.. but its also really bad timing.. help!!!


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kayybabyx3 answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 5:24 pm:
simple. dont pick either boy. the timing right now is really bad for both of them..and since this one guys little brother died you should give him some time to himself and just to take things slow for awhile.

but if you were to pick one of them..personally i think you should pick the guy whos little brother died. because why would the other guy suddenly wanna start doing stuff with you again? thats kinda weird.. and it seems like he doesnt want another guy to have you. plus, that other guy sounds like he would treat you well if you were to go out.so just let the situation cool off and go from there.
-- xo kayy <3

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boyiloveyou answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 4:17 pm:
well dont pick any of them. you dont need a guy to make you happy. anyways. if there friends and your friends with them then maybe its best just to be friends so you dont mess up yuor friendship and there friendship and in like a mounth or two and they still want to go out with you then just be like i dont want to rack your friendship and if they say out wont then just pick the other guy if he still likes you. i hope i helped

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EdwardCullenLuver answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 10:57 am:
Go with the guy that will treat you how you deserve to be treated. He is the right one. And about the other ass just forget him. You are an amazing girl and deserve the best.
Pce Out <33333 &hearts;
Z

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