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Question Posted Saturday May 12 2007, 9:51 am

ok, so i like this guy and hes a year younger then me tho, for some reason i like him but he treats me terrible, he talks about me and stuff. His best friend is in love with me, and its kinda weird because me and the guy that i like were friends but now that he found out i like him, he hates me. i cant stop liking him but idk what to do. i see him about 4 times a day and its really awkward, i just want things to be the way they used too. i just need an oppinion. i tried to say sorry to him becuase my friends always like goo "" ooooo" in front of him and like go up to him, so thats why he hates me because of my friends anoying him. i tried to say sorry by a note because i never get to talk to him, but he just through the note away. plz help what should i do??? thxxx

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christina answered Saturday May 12 2007, 1:42 pm:
He probably doesn't know how to cope with it & your friends also have something to do with it apparently. When you see him, talk to him. Just be like "Please don't walk away, this is important." Then tell him how sorry you are about how things are going & you didn't mean for it to be this way.
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As for your annoying little friends, tell them to stop before you're not talking to them. It gets annoying when they do that & they're not helping anything at all. They're just making things worse for you & him altogether, so they need to chill out. Sounds mean to say to them, but they need to hear it.

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iwantthetruth answered Saturday May 12 2007, 12:07 pm:
if i were you id just tell him you dont like him anymore. you should seriously go up to him and tell him in person. just tell him that you're gonna get your friends to stop bothering him and that you wanna be friends with him again. if hes a jerk and doesnt understand than he probably isnt worth being friends with. and tell your friends that you dont like him anymore so they should shut up and get lives. hahaa well not really but id say that to them. lol just as lomng as they get the idea. hope this clears up because girl drama is a pain in the ass.

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ammo answered Saturday May 12 2007, 11:53 am:
Personally I think you should just ignore him. Eventually he will just come to you when he sees you're not all broken up over him not talking to you anymore. If not then he obviously doesn't care about you anyway so I'd say you should just get on with things and leave them for now.

I see no reason why he should be acting this way with you, moreso that you've actually tried to say sorry for the way your friends are and he just won't listen.

Just leave him to his ignorance and get on with things and if he actually likes you at all he will try and talok to you and fix things. At the present moment though the way he has been with you it seems he doesn't seem to care at all so I think the best you can do is move on. Not saying you should just turn off how you feel about him because no one can do that but at the least you do need to move on. Maybe you'll find someone nicer who actually treats you a lot nicer than this guy is so far.

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