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so tired..
I'm so tired and slightly angry at my friends! Today is one of the busiest days of my life, I have to download over 50 videos on Mega Upload for today only because the owner of the videos said that she's going to dlete the links tonight!
I only downloaded about probably 10 until it said I cna't download anymore in like 4 hours. Then I thought "HEY! My best friends could download some for me, and then send them to me on msn!"
When I asked them, they're both liek "ugh..."
I am so ticked off! Sometimes I can't sleep just to think all night of how to wokr out this problem to hlep them with their homework and help them with their stuff but yet they can't do a little thign for me?
Can anyone think of things to calm me down and feel better about this and probably not cry about the videos? thanks for caring
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I know exactly how this feels. I do things for my brother all the time, sometimes without him even asking; although yet when I want a favor done for me, it's almost impossible for him to do it even if he's right there, like today:
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He was across the street & the girl who lives there was borrowing some clothes of mine. I called him & asked if he could get them for me, and he declared "No." and when I said "Why!? You're right there!" He said "I just don't feel like it." and I said to him "Well, when you want something, I definitely won't feel like doing that for you either."
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And I'm not doing things for him anymore until he can learn to appreciate the shit I do for him. I mean, yes it's nice to do things for somebody else, but it's also nice to get acknowleged for it & to have someone do something nice for you as well. So basically, don't do things for them. Tell them that what they need is not your problem & you're sick of being nice without getting at least a nice thing done in return for you. If they get mad, then they're two faced.
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15/m) i have a twin brother that is the same way, i'll do ton of little things for him(some big favors but mostly small things) and then i'll ask him to do something for me and he's say "what do i get out of it". and what i did is i first talked to him about it and he didn't change one bit. so, has a last result, i told him i would stop helping him completely, i'm kinda still in that procees but he seems to be getting it a little and we're starting to help eachother out more. you could always try what i did but idk how close your friend are. and it would probably be different with friends being you don't have to live with them but you could just start doing what they do to you and turn it around on them. but that is kinda mean. talking but again, not always effective. i hope i could help.
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