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my friend lied to me about what she was doing..
hi im 13 female,
so anyway i thought i was going to my dads house last friday so i asked my best friend if she wanterd to come ( cos my dad wants me to bring friends or whatever) and she said sed like to but she cant because she was going to a horseshow and to dinner for her moms friends birthday. so anyway i was ok with that but it turns out my dad was stuck in CA so he wouldnt be back till saturday so i coudnt go to his place. So i called up my friends house and asked if she culd look after me (cos my mum had to go away which was why i was going to dads in the first place) but my friends mom said that she was at my other friends house having a sleepover. So i called her and she was like "Oh yeah im not going to dinner they moved it to tomrow, but me and -other friends name- are going to get pizza with some other people do u wwant to come?" so i said no because i had to find some place to stay. But i think she was lying about the dinner to get out of coming to see me and i feel really offended and stupid cos shes my best friend so i was wondering what i should say or do?
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ok first, you should talk to her about it. and if she lies to you again, give her one more chance, and if she does it again, then i wouldnt be her friend anymore if i were you. friends who lie to you, arent really your friends.
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Though you were offended, she may have needed the space away to hang out with other friends. When friends get to close things tend to get intese and you may start to annoy each other. Don't take it to personal and get some time for yourself. You never know you, might just enjoy your own company. (If not then find another friend to just have a little fun with.)
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EDIT-- Okay well you didn't say that. That's your fault, not mine. So, rating me 4 brings down my average rating ALOT. Thanks...
I do that so many times. It's really okay. She probably WAS lying, only because she didn't want to hurt your feelings. She already had plans for a sleepover, so she didn't want to just cancel her plans to go with you. So instead of being rude and telling you that she was going to a sleepover, she told you she had to do something NOT fun to make you happy. Seriously, I do this alot. Just because I love my friends and don't want to upset them. It's alright. She's a good friend. :]
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