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I have a boyfriend but I also may have a chance at death.
Deathwillcome, I am dating a guy, that I have already dated before but, we ended up well broken up. All my friends had warned me that he would hurt me and to a point he kinda did but, I feel like some of it was my fault anyhow thats not quite what I wanted to ask about. Im sick and I take a lot of medication and I could drop dead at any point anymoment only 4 people know about it including my bf, we've been dating three days, and we are taking it slow today he asked when he was allowed to kiss me and I said that when we were ready it would happen. Do you think I was right to take him back? and The kissing thing what do you make of that? but the main reason I came to you was because I want to Know if it is wrong to date him? I am sick and I could die should I date him? I love him I know I do. He is sweet and I dont want to have deppressed or thinking it is his fault that I die or That he is letting me down by moving on and being happy after I go. What Do I do? thanx for any help you can give me.
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ok...so I'm going to answer this one question at a time. The first thing is, I can't tell you if it was the right thing to do. 1-It isn't wrong, the only way it coulb be wrong is if you knew that he would hurt you again, or if you liked another guy or something. Then it could be a bad idea. But I don't know if it was the right idea becuase I don't know you or him...I don't know what the chemistry is like and I don't know how he treats you. 2-It sounds like he really cares about how you feel and think. Some guys would just kiss you even if you weren't ready. But I agree with what you told him, it will happen when it happens. When you are ready, the moment will just be right. 3- (the main reason you are asking me) So you could die any moment, who cares!? I'm not saying that meaning who cares if you die. What I mean is, everyone could die any moment. Yes you have more of a chance to die right now, or tomorrow, but that's just more of a reason to live for the "now", not for the "then". He loves you, you love him. Sounds like a match made in heaven if I've ever heard it. Yes there may be problems, but if you two stick together, you can get through anything... ask me anything anytime... :) Hope I helped....!
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